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                   Exercises           
                
A New Future              
  for Dorah                               
                       
                      
                       by             
                    Bronwen Jones            
                  Dorah will be four in April. When she was seven months old,             
                    the house in which she lived caught fire. The heat destroyed             
                    her hands and face.At the end of 1997 doctors in South Africa             
                    recommended that her eyes should be removed to prevent infection.            
                    Was this necessary? asked  The Times. Was there             
                  a surgeon somewhere who could save Dorah's eyes?     
                       Today, thanks to the generosity             
                    of our readers, Dorah has a very different future. The plea             
                    for medical assistance to allow her to keep her sense of light             
                    and dark has attracted interest from many eminent doctors.             
                    It has also   
                  raised ₤76 000 in donations - people wrote from             
                    as far a field as Australia and New York.              
                      The most likely option             
                    now is that Dorah will come to London in the spring and that             
                    the first of several operations will take place to rebuild             
                    her eyelids. Richard Collin, a  at Moorfields Eye Hospital, has offered             
                    his skills for free, and the hospital fees of £ 6 500 for the             
                    first two operations will be met by donations.              
                      Mr. Collin has yet to examine             
                    Dorah, but he was optimistic after Sky TV shot medical              
                    of her injuries. If the initial              
                    on Dorah is good, she will have the first operation immediately.             
                    This will use skin from elsewhere on her body, probably her             
                    legs, to create a curtain over the eyes. She will be in hospital             
                    for 10 days, followed by six weeks’              
                    to allow the scars to heal. During this time Dorah's eyes             
                    could be tested to see how much sight she has.              
                      Many  Times readers             
                    have offered Dorah accommodation, but she may need to remain             
                    in London to have her other needs assessed at Great Ormond             
                    Street Hospital for Children, or possibly East Grinstead,             
                    where the Victoria Hospital has a specialized unit in . The second operation, to divide her new             
                    eyelids, would take two to three days in hospital.              
                      Then Dorah would fly home             
                    to South Africa for six months. Her scar tissue would heal             
                    and she would have daily treatment with eye drops and cream.             
                    After this, she would return to the UK for a third operation             
                    to try to raise the eyelids by attaching a muscle from behind             
                    the eyes to the lids. In this, or a fourth operation, Mr.             
                    Collin would try to thicken the eyelids by adding tissue and             
                    more skin.             
                        Because Dorah's case is so unusual, none             
                    of the procedures or time estimates will be confirmed until             
                    she arrives here, and securing permission for her to travel             
                    involves much              
                    in South Africa. Events took an even more unexpected turn             
                    when I found Dorah's mother, Margaret Mokoena, living in a             
                    . I had been told by hospital administrators             
                    and by a reporter who had visited the camp that Margaret was             
                    only 14 when Dorah was born. When I finally met her, I realized             
                    that one never knows the truth until one has              
                    it for oneself.              
                      Margaret is now 26. She             
                    left school with the education level of a 12-year-old because             
                    there was no money to pay for fees, uniform and transport.             
                    She grew up in a              
                    home, with a drunken father who abused her mother so badly             
                    that she walked out seven years ago. Margaret has not heard             
                    from her since.              
                      Her father's other wife             
                    stabbed Margaret's father in the chest a year ago - he died.             
                    Margaret was raised mainly by her frail grandmother, Violet,             
                    on whose monthly state pension of R 470 (£53) the family survived.             
                    Margaret said that if ever she secured part-time work tilling             
                    the maize fields, the men in the family spent her earnings             
                    on alcohol. Even Dorah's father - who has shown no interest             
                    in her since she was injured - beat Margaret. She has burn             
                    scars on her right arm where he hit her with an iron.              
                      From this horrific background             
                    a quietly spoken, thoughtful young woman has emerged. Unlike             
                    many of her contemporaries, she has had only one child and             
                    has no intention of finding another male partner. She has             
                    no positive role models to encourage her to do so.             
                      How she lost contact with             
                    her child is a story              
                    in the attitudes of the              
                    era that still affect so much of South African society. Margaret             
                    has little self-confidence; she curtseyed when we met.              
                      The blaze in which Dorah             
                    was injured started when a candle fell from its holder. The             
                    cardboard used to cover the hut quickly caught fire. Margaret             
                    was at a neighbour's home fetching water for Violet, who was             
                    sick. "I came back and flames were coming through the roof,"             
                    she whispers. "I looked inside and when the flames seemed             
                    lower over the bed, my brother and I grabbled the mattress             
                    and pulled Dorah out. She was so badly hurt that I was scared             
                    to touch her."              
                      An ambulance tour of hospitals             
                    followed through the night, with rejection and              
                    at every turn. When eventually Dorah was taken into  of the Far East Rand Hospital,             
                    Margaret was told to go home.              
                      She had been separated             
                    from her baby before, when Dorah was born two months premature.             
                    "I think it was because I was so badly beaten by my child's             
                    father. They kept her in an              
                    for two weeks."              
                      Margaret was also used             
                    to being              
                    by hospital officials, who always thought they knew best.             
                    She had neither the language skills nor confidence to argue             
                    with them. And she had no money.              
                      The visits were occasional,             
                    but on one occasion she was told her child had been transferred             
                    and that no one could give her a contact number for the hospital.             
                    Margaret was told to go to the 's court to sign             
                    papers to allow Dorah to become a ward of court, although             
                    she did not understand the .             
                                
                      "I did not go to court.             
                    But I did not know what to do. I had no money for lawyers."             
                                
                      But Margaret understood             
                    that Dorah had been adopted and that her maternal rights had             
                    been removed. I took her to be reunited with Dorah.              
                      I cannot easily find words             
                    to express the feeling of the two of them being together again.             
                    This was not a bad mother who did not care about her child.             
                    It was a bad or indifferent society that did not try hard             
                    enough to keep them together. A society that looked at them             
                    in terms of what they could not do or did not have, and judged             
                    them thus.              
                      How wide can a smile be             
                    when a mother holds the child that she has been separated             
                    from for two years? How soft can a look of              
                    be as Dorah's arms wrap around her mother's neck and hold             
                    her tight?              
                      Lumps in the throat cannot             
                    convey the joy of seeing such an injustice righted at last.             
                    Of seeing Margaret cover Dorah's neck and ears with little             
                    kisses, cradling her, singing to her softly.              
                      I cannot pretend Dorah             
                    knew who her mother was. At the "handover" she clung to me             
                    - she knows my voice, my hair, my perfume. But I had at last             
                    used the words "your mother" when talking to her before the             
                    meeting. She knew I was the mother of her playmate Tristan.             
                    Now I told her that this was her mother. I believe that she             
                    understands. This reunion is only the first milestone on a             
                    long road for mother and child, but it is a remarkable one             
                    in South Africa.              
                      In addition to finding             
                    the best medical solution for Dorah, the task is to find the             
                    best and swiftest way to educate her mother to care for her.             
                    So when people asked what they could do, I requested early-childhood             
                    development videos, the easiest way to give information to             
                    barely literate nursing assistants in institutions such as             
                    the one in which Dorah lives.              
                      Some people asked if children             
                    could help. I suggested that they send toys specially tailored             
                    to Dorah's needs. Until now, Dorah has spent most of her life             
                    in a cot, and is far behind where she should be. But with             
                    the many hours that my son Tristan, 7, his friend Thobeka,             
                    also 7, and I have spent playing with Dorah, we have every             
                    belief that she is an intelligent child with much potential.             
                                
                      One of the most exciting             
                    responses has been from Passmores Secondary School, in Edmonton,             
                    North London, where pupils are working on a frame from which             
                    scented and textured objects will hang. This will allow Dorah             
                    to smell a bag of herbs, or crackle a bag of .             
                                
                      They are also stitching             
                    a Dorah-size play rug that combines interesting textures,             
                    and are recording a story on tape that goes something like             
                    this: "One day Dorah went for a walk. The gravel path was             
                    rough on her feet" - they will glue gravel pieces on card             
                    for Margaret to place beneath Dorah's feet. "She found a flower             
                    in the garden. Its              
                    were soft like " - there will be satin             
                    ribbon for Dorah to feel.             
                      But for now I have this             
                    enormous feeling of hope for Dorah. I can only smile as I             
                    see the soft curves of Margaret's profile and see Dorah's             
                    dreams reflected there.              
                             
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