The family is the nucleus of American life. Dr.
Mark Hutter, professor of sociology at Rowan University,
in Glassboro, New Jersey, has researched family and urban
life extensively, with particular emphasis on the changing
family, immigrant and ethnic households, the family and
the community and the social psychology of city life. Recently,
he discussed his findings.
Q: Putting aside, for the moment, the dramatic
increase in dual-earner
households, what is the most significant change in family
dynamics over the past two decades?
A: There are several. One is the aging of the population,
causing a shift from a three- to four-generation family.
When
I think of this unit -- with great-grandparents, grandparents,
parents and their children -- I have specific concern and
interest in the relationships that exist between the oldest
generation and their children -- who, themselves, may be
grandparents. In particular, often daughters not only have
to take care of their children and grandchildren, but their
parents as well. The second development to note is the fact
that young people are postponing both marrying and having
children. Much of this reflects economic changes and economic
opportunities faced by young people, for whom marriage is
not their only option as adults. Educational and career
possibilities and a greater range of non-family life options
are on hand for them.
Q: If the family is still vital, why must family units
be scattered nationwide?
A: Economic and social factors account for this
change. Contemporary society often demands a highly mobile
group of workers who'll go where the jobs are. This desire
to maximize economic opportunities often causes the breakdown
of longstanding
patterns of kinship
interaction. In addition, the greater concern for individual
advancement often takes precedence
over interest in extended family ties and obligations.
Q: If we speak about family and community, do
you feel communities are doing enough to support and promote
family life?
A: The trend seems to reflect a greater emphasis
on the withdrawal
of individuals and the nuclear family from community involvement.
You could say that it's best symbolized by the shift from
living in houses with front porches
to living in houses with enclosed backyards.
Q: Talk for a moment about single parents in
the United States.
A: There are two major groups. One is composed
of formerly married people whose single-parent household
is a
consequence of divorce or separation. The second group consists
of never-married parents, a large segment of which consists
of single teenage or young adult women, many from the lower
part of the economic scale. In each case, the success of
the single-parent household depends on the nature of the
ties between the parent and child, or children, and often
upon the degree of participation of grandparents or other
relatives in raising these youngsters. In addition, community
and governmental agencies -- including day care centers
-- can have an impact on the single-parent family situation.
Q: Do you believe that children raised in single-parent
households lack any psychological or emotional support?
A: I don't think so -- provided that children who
grow up in single-parent homes receive the support, nurturing
and guidance of their parents, extended family and local
social institutions. Often we presume,
incorrectly, that the only person raising that child is
a single parent living in isolation. That doesn't usually
happen.
Q: Is there a correlation
between the strength of a family and its economic status?
A: Money can alleviate
many of the stresses of everyday family life, to be sure.
But it's not the panacea
for shaping
a successful family. The process must involve nurturing
and support, as well as control and guidance of children.
Affluent
parents who are neglectful cannot overcome that neglect
of their children with money.
Q: What overriding
guiding principles do you find in successful families --
that is, the ones that produce emotionally mature, well-adjusted
young adults and emotionally satisfied parents?
A: Successful parents and successful children often
result from an understanding of the different positions
and perspectives they maintain. Parents and children must
be sensitive to each other's respective concerns. Here,
too, an atmosphere of understanding and sharing must prevail.
Family members must accept the fact that life extends beyond
the family for each of its members. This outside, or other
life must also be taken into consideration as one deals
with another.
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