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                      Love 
                        Beyond the Grave 
                         
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                      Red roses were her favorites, 
                      her name was also Rose. And every year, her husband sent 
                      them, tied with pretty bows. 
                      The year he passed away, the roses 
                      were delivered to her door. The enclosed 
                      card said, "Be My Valentine," like all the years 
                      before. 
                        Each 
                      year he sent her roses, the notes would always say, "I 
                      love you even more this year than last year on this day." 
                      or "My love for you will always grow with each passing 
                      year." The year he passed away, she was sure it was 
                      the last time that the roses would appear on her front door. 
                        
                       
                     
                      
                         
                          Flowers 
                            in American Culture 
                             
                            The giving of flowers on special  occasions 
                            is very important in American culture. These flowers 
                            are usually given by the male to the female, especially 
                            to sweethearts, wives, or mothers. The times during 
                            the year when it is most appropriate to give flowers 
                            are wedding anniversaries, birthdays, Mother's Day, 
                            and especially Valentine's Day. | 
                         
                       
                     
                     
                      
                         
                          Valentine's 
                            Day 
                             
                             A 
                            holiday occurring on February 14th when flowers, gifts, 
                            chocolates, cards, and other symbols of love are often 
                            exchanged by affectionate persons. | 
                         
                       
                     
                     
                      
                         
                          Standing 
                            Order 
                             
                            Instructions given to a merchant or  other 
                            person to deliver a product or provide a service at 
                            regular intervals or whenever it is needed. For example, 
                            some standing orders are carried out weekly, monthly, 
                            or annually. Others, such as an order to shovel snow 
                            from a sidewalk or driveway, are only carried whenever 
                            they are needed. There are three main kinds of standing 
                            orders: a purchase order; a delivery order; and a 
                            service order.  | 
                         
                       
                     
                     
                       
                   
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                  She thought he must have ordered the roses in advance before 
                  this day. Her loving husband did not know that he would die. 
                  He always liked to do things very promptly, 
                  long before the deadline. In this way, if he was occupied, 
                  everything would still work out appropriately. 
                   
                    She 
                  trimmed 
                  the stems, 
                  and inserted 
                  them symbolically in a very special vase. 
                  She would sit for hours, in her husband's favorite chair while 
                  staring blankly 
                  at his photograph and the roses sitting there.  
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                  A year went by and it was difficult to endure 
                  without her mate. With loneliness 
                  and solitude, 
                  that tragedy has become her fate. 
                  Then, at that identical 
                  hour, as on Valentines 
                  Day before, the doorbell rang and there were red roses 
                  sitting by her door. 
                    She brought the roses in and then just looked at them in astonishment. 
                  Then, she went to get the telephone and called the florist 
                  who had delivered the roses. The owner answered and she asked 
                  him if he would explain why someone would unexpectedly 
                  do this to her, provoking 
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                  "I know your husband passed away more than a year ago," 
                  the owner said. "I knew you'd call and you would want to 
                  know," he proceeded. 
                  "The flowers you received today were paid for in advance. 
                  Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance." 
                    "There is a standing 
                   purchase and delivery order that I have on file 
                  down here. And he has paid, well in advance, so you'll get them 
                  every year. There is also another thing that I think you should 
                  know. He wrote a special little card, which he did several years 
                  ago."  
                    "Then should ever I find out that he is no longer around, 
                  that's the card that should be sent to you the following year." 
                  She thanked him and hung up the phone, her tears now flowing 
                  hard. Her fingers were shaking, as she haltingly 
                  reached to get the card.   
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                  Inside the card, she saw that he had written a note. As she 
                  stared in absolute silence, this was what he wrote... 
                    "Hello my love, I know it's been a year since I've departed. 
                  I loved you more than words can say. You were the perfect wife 
                  and the ideal 
                  companion. You were my friend and lover. You fulfilled my every 
                  need." 
                    "When you get these roses, think of all the happiness 
                  that we had together and how both of us were blessed 
                  to have each other. The roses will come every year and they 
                  will only stop when your door's not answered, when the florist 
                  stops to deliver and knock on the door. 
                    "He will come five times that day, in case you should 
                  be out. But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt, 
                  to take the roses to the place where I've instructed him, and 
                  place the roses where we are, together once again."  
                    
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